Choosing the right school requires more than attending a polished open house. As a former admissions director, I've seen how these curated events showcase the ideal but may not reveal the full picture of daily school life. While open houses serve their purpose, parent tours during regular school days offer invaluable insights into authentic classroom dynamics, teacher interactions, and student engagement.

Parent tours allow you to ask pressing questions without children present, observe real-time problem-solving by administrators, and witness genuine school culture. Though limited in availability, these 1.5-hour experiences provide the most meaningful connection between families and schools. If parent tours aren't available, attend open houses strategically—ideally 1-2 years before applying when pressure is minimal. Remember: the right school visit combines both heart and practical evaluation of your significant educational investment.